Advice needed please - past Relationships Post a Reply | Views: 681 | Started By: nice_girl | Replies: 7 Ok here's my question, any answer will be appreciated. My bf and I have been together for 3 yrs.  I've never had a previous relationship... and... I don't know if he had any!!  we've never talked about it. i don't know how to ask him that. I think we should know this things about each other. i mean, one part of me thinks,"doesn't matter what could have happened before, he's with you now" but other part of me is dying thinking that he may be comparing me, sometimes i feel jealous that he may had other girls in the past (i've never had sex, and i don't know if he did - we have a tacit agreement of chastity between us).  and other thing: we really love each other and we may very well end up getting married in a few years, but i can't stop thinking "i REALLY love him, he's really great, but what if there's someone better than him" i have no comparison point since he's my first love. help me please!!!!

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Pages:    Prev    1   2     This is very interesting to me.  I have a totally different opinion on this situation.  What does it really matter about his past relationships.  your the one he wants to be with.  If your curious you could ask him about it on the basis of curiousity but you might find out too much information then you need to knowand become even more jealous then you are now.  If he has had other relationships they couldn't have been that earth shattering or he'd still be with them.  You need to concentrate on yourself and building your confidence.  Volunteer work, hobbies, etc.  and stop worrying about the past.  When the time is right these things will come out naturally.  No one wants to be grilled about past relationships. i feel the only reason you should talk about his past relationships might be if you are planning to become more intimate otherwise you should respect his privacy.  Best of luck Responded: Mimi   its your call but part of me thinks u should drop it cause in my bff relationship they broke up after 5 years cause they wanted to talk about past ex'sbad idea but on the other hand it can bring your love together so think about it first before you do something stupid Responded: Guest   Pages:    Prev    1   2