Im kinda stuck.. Need Advice Post a Reply | Views: 323 | Started By: nonaName | Replies: 2 Hi, I have a quite tricky problem that I really need help with cos I dont know what to do.   Right, here goes. I found out today that a girl I know really likes me. Normally Id be pretty happy about this, but this time Im really stuck and I dont really know what to think. Thing is shes 15 and Im 20. Bad start. Shes also the sister of one of my ex-gfs whom I've stayed friends with and who now means a lot to me as a friend. Not only that, our familys are good friends as well. My mum went to college with her dad. Was down at her house this wkend (as I do sometimes, Im friends with them all) and she was being quite friendly.   Examples:  Always sitting close to me preferably touching me with something (like a leg or just sitting so we're touching).   Making excuses for other ppl to leave the room so that we'd be alone.  Touching me in a flirty kinda way (you know, touches to the shoulder, hair, leg etc... to emphasise a point)  Getting angry when people would take her seat (next to me).  Now, I wasnt doing anything to actively lead her on but I wasnt discouraging her either. To me, it just seemed like she was being playful/flirting like teenagers do (opinions on this theory please) but my ex noticed and pointed this out to me. I really dont want to hurt her. The whole family means a lot to me and I do care about her, but this cant happen right now for obvious reasons. Theres way too much at stake. I need some advice on what I can do to let her know this. To let her know that its not bcos I dont like her (cos I do). Its not bcos I think shes unattractive (cos I dont). I dont want to wreck her self-confidence if you see what I mean. Anyway, any advice would be very much appreciated. Thanks.

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Hey, you're in a pretty mess.. The earlier you talk with her - the better itll be for you both. Try to explain her popular that you like her, but you want to be just friends - and nothing more so far.. If you can do nothing about it - say that you have a girlfriend or whatever... She's a little girl, it's normal that she's flirting (it's a flirt!) with you, she will have a lot of guys to flirt with - don't take it seriously. It now seems for her a whole world, but in several years she'll change, and most probably switch over to somebody else. Just talk to her - it's the only way possible, to my mind. Responded: Dr.Dating   Yes !! This is the real PROBLEM ! (i mean She is 15) I had similar situation... and you know.. i was confused... just like you Yeh..Whatever.. You shouldn't take the whole things so seriously. She is 15 !!  Cos it's flirt ! Moreover she doesn't really know what she's doing... or playing on/with you, if she does! We all were teenagers... just go back in time. So flirting my friend (!) and have good time instead of getting mind troubles.  Good luck ! Responded: Cinco