Problem with her Family.. Post a Reply | Views: 312 | Started By: maxi2go | Replies: 1 I have been dating this wonderful girl for the past five months.  The problem is this: She lives with and supports her mother.  She then had to go away to work which I travelled with her.  When she got their she had found her mother had cleaned out the bank account and left her high & dry for having a place to stay and food to eat or even gas to drive home.  Had I not been there to cover her expenses, she would have been "SOL".  Doing this her mother crossed any boundry I have for people and lost all respect from me.  However, being that she won't through her mom in the street and any future with this lady I have will include her mother in it I am having second thoughts about seeing her.  She truly is a wonderful lady, selfless person herself.   Any advice? What should I do?

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You know, I see that your girlfriend is not going to leave her mom, isn't she? Well, the problem is that you can't change a person (her mother), try to talk with your girlfriend about your relations (I mean the three of you). What is more important for her: living all her life with her mother or changing her own life for the better?   There is too little information you gave, but on the other hand, you have to decide for yourself what is major for you. If you love her so much and don't imagine your future without her, then try to take everything as it is, though it's a hard thing to do... The only possible decision is to take your girlfriend from her mom and move to the other place. Otherwise your life will be a nightmare! If you do nothing about it all, well, you have only yourself to blame afterwards for all possible complications...    Anyway, it's for you to decide.   Responded: Mr.Bush