I've been dating this guy for over a year and lately he keeps standing me up, and not calling. He and I will make plans to hang out after he gets off of work or something and he even calls to confirm the date and then when its time for him to get off of work Im waiting for a phone call or something but no show. He doesnt call or come by. so the next day comes and he doesnt call to explain. Basically I have to hunt him down and ask for an explaination as to why he didnt show up or call and cancel. He ussually has some lame excuse which honestly I never know if he's telling the truth or not. This last time he did it was two days ago. We made plans, he went to work, called me from work to confirm our plans. then bam when it was time for him to get off I was dressed and waiting for him to call or come by, he never did. I called him, he wasnt home, called his relatives he wasnt there. He never did call he wasnt home and basically played the disappearing act. The next day, he didnt call so I called him, wasnt there all day. And finally I called him at work. I was pissed. I asked him what happened, his responce, 'what had happened was...' followed by his excuse that he had an emergency to help someone move and couldnt call. My responce, a very pissed whatever and blow off. He tells me not to be 'mean to him' right like its all about how I treat him, he hurts me and when I respond to that hurt then im the problem. I want him to feel my pain, I'm angry and hurt. I dont really trust him now and I feel like he's lying. because if the reason he didnt show up was innocent he would at least call the next day with an explaination but instead if I do hear from him the next day he doesnt even mention it. I also feel like he doesnt care about my feelings otherwize he would call to cancel or explain himself.... what should I do ?
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