Do we still have a future? Post a Reply | Views: 630 | Started By: Shaun | Replies: 6 Hi all I'm hoping for some advice here! About 18 months ago, I met this girl online. We dated, and she ended up coming to my house every weekend as she lived and worked some distance away. I was more smitten early in the relationship, and we agreed that she would move in if she could find a teaching job in my area. However, a few months down the line, I didnt find her as attractive any more and started comparing her to other girls I would see in the street and getting envious of other guys with a nicer looking girlfriend that mine. My dilema is that this girl is very caring, will do anything for me and is smart but I don't feel there is much of a spark. And she has recently moved in because I didnt want to hurt her. But I have lost touch with some of my friends having spent almost every weekend with her. Do you think that looks are important in a relationship, especially as we are both in our twenties? I'm sure it would be different if we were a lot older and looks were less important. I do feel comfortable with her, and I worry that if we split I might regret it later. Any comments?! Thanks, and all the best.

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Pages:    Prev    1   2     Hmmm...this is a tough one, because if you just aren't attracted to her, that can lead to lots of heartbreak down the line.  However, looks are not everything and there comes a time when you have to see beyond a face or body.    Do you love her?  If you can honestly say yes and not feel bad about being with her when you pass others on the street with a better looking significant other, then keep it going.  If you answer no, then now is the best time to let her go - do it before you get too far down the road and end up married with kids or something. Responded: Princessmogan   Pages:    Prev    1   2