Should I break up? need help Post a Reply | Views: 1168 | Started By: Guest | Replies: 2 My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years.  We met in college and had a great relationship.  She is a year older than me and decided to go to graduate school nine months ago.  Unfortunately this school is 8 hours apart from where I go.  I am still finishing my undergrad and plan to work in the same city where I am going to school after I graduate.  She, on the other hand, has no idea where she wants to live but where I am living is not one of her options.  She is expecting me to leave my job and follow her after she graduates.  I don't want to do this because I feel like she would drag me around all over the country until she is settled.  Another thing is recently I have run out of money to visit her.  We used to see each other once every month.  Either I would go to where she lives or she would come here.  Since I don't have any money, I proposed that she fly down to see me.  She comes from a fairly wealthy family and money never seems to be an issue for her.  I, however, have been eating 35cent macaroni and cheese dinners for three weeks so I can save on money.  She refuses to come see me because she thinks that it is "my turn" to see her.  She would rather wait for months for me to save enough money than simply fly down to see me.  She has been stubborn about this for weeks and I don't feel that she will change her mind.  If this is the case, we probably won't see each other for 5 months.  All my credit cards are maxed out from spending money on her and I am getting a temporary job to bring in some money.  But it will take a while for me to pay off some debt and afford to see her.  I already feel betrayed that she left me to go to school in a state hundreds of miles away.  I feel like she doesn't want to be with me.  She says she loves me, and I used to feel the same way.  Ever since she left I have felt this relationship going downhill.  Sometimes I don't feel attracted to her anymore.  I don't feel any love towards her.  Most of the time it seems like she is just a friend I talk to on the phone.  I always told myself that I would wait for her.  But how long should I wait?  Should I give her an ultimatum?  Should I just end it?

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hi my name is natali and  i think that  u need  to moove  on with your life  i know  its  hard but i belive  she  is using  u and  she doesnt  undestand  that its your  life and  u want to do something with it  and she doesnt  love  u u right  if she did she will undestand  u and undetsna dwhat udoing  i will say stop goingto see her and  keep doing what udo she  need to know there are more things important then her  in this hope  uwork it  out  good luck Responded: Guest   I have a boyfriend and there's this girl! i hate her even though you see me saying hi and things so nicely! Well anyways, i just get jealous whenever i see them talk and things like that! i don't know what to do. Should i break up with him or what? i need help. If you have any suggestions please e-mail me at cinderella/princess_01_4Life@yahoo.com (that's an underscore after the princess and 01 ) k Thanks -cinderella- Responded: cinderella pena