Hi, I really need advice on a situation I have found myself in. 9 months a go I began living with a couple. I had met the girl before as she was my sisters friend and instantly felt something for her, I queried if I should move in but decided it would be fine. She has a little girl, the present partner not the father but he had been around since she was tiny. I lived there for just 3 months before moving out and in that time made good friends with her boyfriend. My feelings never came up, I would never interfere with something like that. Recently they broke and she got with another man. I finally cracked and told her I had feelings. It turned out she always liked me too and we got together. When he found out he said atleast I was someone that would treat her right but he has now turned and hates it. He still baby sits for her almost daily and makes real problems every night. I would just forget about it but I have had strong feelings for such a long time that i'm not willing to just give it up. Her head is being messed with constantly and I don't really know what to do to make things better, particularly since he says he will never give her up and he hates thinking about things. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Ho can I make this work, I'm getting very depressed thinking about it constantly. Any suggestions appreciated.
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