Okay, so this is the first time I have every considered going to the net for advice but I am at a complete loss as to what I should do in this situation.
Be prepared for a lot of reading, I have a lot to cover.
My ex and I were together for a year and four months. We were engaged as well. He is 20 nearly 21 and I just turned 20. Now throughout our entire relationship he wanted to know where I was what I was doing and who I was with at all times, He would call or text message me literally every 5 minutes. It got annoying really fast. But I learned to deal with it.
Then on top of the obsessive calling he didn't have a job, no liscense, no car, no ambition what so ever. He was just this loser.
So, I got fed up with trying to convince him to make things better for himself and our future together and called off the engagement and relationship all together.
He has now began to get his life on track in order to prove to me that we should be together.
My family and friends are totally thrilled that we are no longer together. But I feel empty and lost.
Now, this is where all of you come in. What should I do? Take him back or tell him to go away? Should I be his friend or should I totally remove myself from his life?
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