Am i Paranoid..or is he Cruel?? Post a Reply | Views: 254 | Started By: sooticaa | Replies: 2 ive been going out with my boyfriend since high school..3 yrs now. We have so much fun together and i think he loves me deep down...but sometimes he says that he wants to 'have fun' which entails being single and 'free' and sleeping with a few other girls. Because we're both still so young i can understand his perspective...i dont know what to do. We spend alot of time together and get on soo well most of the time but he goes through phases when he is cruel to me and often dumps me for a few days... i dont know what to do. to save the relationship is it wise to allow him more freedom and not get upset when i read messages to other girls on his phone.... please help me

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Girl, nobody can help you except yourself. Head for the exits on this relationship. It's not a two-way relationship, it's one-way and it's his way. He dumps you whenever he wants and you just say yes to it. Don't allow yourself to be treated like a doormat where he comes and goes as he pleases. Give him the boot RIGHT NOW! Responded: ctan   i totally agree with ctan. i know it is hard. but it is obvious that he needs those break ups to have his freedom and it is his way of justifying what he does on those sprees...he was single at the time. PULL THE PLUG AND LET HIM BE SINGLE. you are better off. Responded: Guest