My gf sais she doesnt love me anymore. She's only 17... Post a Reply | Views: 1189 | Started By: Ovidiu | Replies: 5 We've been together for 10 months. It was great all the time, except the final part, when I think she became suffocated, and then cold with me. I admit I was too obsesive. But then she told me she doesnt love me and doesnt think her feelings will ever come back to her. I want so much to know that there is still hope howsoever for me, because it's been a month, I've learned alot and I prooved myself I CAN go on with my life, but I still love her and I am willing to wait... All I want to know is if she could be mistaking. She sais she doesnt think she could ever be with someone. Is this possible for a girl? Is she too young? I'm really confused, and I need some advice. Please, if there is anyone who could give me some, thanks alot!

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How old are you? Responded: my name is help   I think you girlfriend doesn't know what she wants out of life. My ex is the same way. You will always have feelings for her because you cannot pick and choose who you love. I go through the same delimma and in my case there is my daughter involved. I have found that the things you want the most in life should be let free and if they are truly yours they will come back. I know it is hard because I haven't been with my ex-girlfriend for over 4 years and I love her as much and more than when I first met her. You just have to stay strong. I don't think anyone is too young for love, and no one just falls out of love, that takes time. Just respect her wishes and she will find out for herself what she is missing out on and come back. Responded: Jared   you know what you must have been very possesive of her thats why she became cold and all that... every woman needs a sense of freedom and at the same time sense of security... too much of anything is really bad... you should have given her time for herself, a little time for her to miss you and long for you... honestly thats my problem right now... im growing cold bout my bf because he seems to manipulate my life.. he's very impatient and once he hurted me physically... i know and i feel that he loves me so much but i feel so suffocated maybe the very same thing your gf felt for you... just go on with your life and you know just trust in the saying that "if you two are really meant to be, love will always find its way back to you... Responded: rizel   Hi, I am going through the exact same thing as you are. I have been with my girlfriend for about 7 months, and our relationship had been going perfectly, we where both so happy, and everything was amazing, the connection, everything. About a week ago, she went to this workshop. The point of this workshop is to get to know yourself and learn about yourself, I personally think that it's bullshit, anyway, so when she came back from the workshop, she came over and told me that while she was there, she realized that she dosent have those feelings for me anymore, I am trying to be optomistic and think maybe she will realize that she does love me and that she will miss me, I waited 4 days after the break up  to call her, giving her some time to think about it, and she does not have anwsers for me, she replys to every question with "I don't know" which means she isn't sure, and i guess that means she is thinking about it..i don't know. She told me not to get my hopes up , and not to wait, but i don't think i have another choice because it's don't want to move on from somthing so amazing..So you can just do what I do, all you can do is wait. and then talk to her and see hows shes feeling, Girls need alot of time to think about things, and I know thats hard, trust me, i havent stoped crying since she broke up with me..its killing me and i cant find the motivation to get up and even do anything, but time will help you..even if she wont want you back, time will heal everything.. if you want to talk, my AIM is Laymeedown2nite my MSN Laymeedown2nite@aol.com   you can message me or anything. because I also need help getting through this, so lets try to help eachother. I am also 17.   -Avi Responded: Avi   Oh stop being a little bitch... yes she's too young to know what she wants and also a chick can live on without being with anyone... some of them even just become booty calls! Responded: stop being a little bitch