Should I feel hurt? Post a Reply | Views: 1165 | Started By: Lola | Replies: 10 Hi, please, tell me what I should do. It so happened that the day before we had a great sex with my boyfriend. We were going to go on with it yesterday. All day long I told him how much I wanted him. But when I came home after a busy day at the office, I was so tired I could hardly walk. The only thing I wanted was to go to bed. He felt insulted: “You wanted me, you promised me we’ll do it – and now what?,,, “ The problem is that for about 10 days I mustn’t have sex at all, because I’m taking medicine (actually it’s a vaginal medicine) He’s angry with me, he blames me for my yesterday refusal. Now he has to wait for almost two weeks! It seems to me that I must do it every time he wants, no matter if I want it or not. His words hurt me. I told him to find a tart who will give herself to him any time he asks her to. Now I’m at a loss. Should I feel hurt and blame him for his words? I don’t know how to react to his behaviour.

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Pages:     1   2    Next     Well... anything could happen..he should have understood you.. or put himself on your place.. I personally wouldn’t feel hurt at all.. you don’t have to have sex with him every day – the feeling of having him by your side is quite enough to be happy. As for having sex all day long, well.. I doubt if he could manage it himself..You’re not a mechanism... and believe me, they have problems with it too... Responded: Guest   I dont see why he's so mad because he has to wait. if he loves you he shouldnt make it such a big deal. i mean sure if he was expecting it he'd probably be a bit bummed but its not like its gonna kill him to wait. and you have a long time so whats the rush? Responded: Alexis   Um, sorry, but i really think you should have given it a try if he was expecting it.  You both knew you'd have to wait 10 days after that?  If it was you, how would you have felt?  You really wouldn't have had to be that into it yourself.  If you were tired you could have just made your body available for a few minutes. What would be so hard about that, if you cared about him?  You better hope you got something extra special worth waiting for or he's probably gonna go elsewhere.  That's just how men are wired. Responded: Pen   Sweetheart - If he really loves you, he would understand. My ex and I had sex 5 times in 8 1/2 months.  She was always tired and I understood.  Now we are apart and I can feel her lusting for me.   Don't feel bad; don't feel bad at all!!!  I'm sure it will be worth the wait, for the both of you. Responded: Vivid   Yep, IF he really loved you he'd understand.You can have sex anytime.....but it's making love only if both partners want to. I'd lose this jerk Responded: Guest   Pages:     1   2    Next